Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Todd Tables





If you know me even remotely personally I talk a lot about how people are my best friends. It may seem to some that I have about a million people who are my "best friend" "best dude" "best ass dude" "best dude ever"..etc you get the idea. However, most of the time when I say these statements its about 10 people. I know that 10 people may sound like a lot of people to be your best friend but what you may not understand is that these are the ten people that I spend all of my time and literally shut everyone else in the world out. I have been labeled an "ASSHOLE" for quite some time and I admit fully to being obnoxious and even crossing the line with some of my jokes. 

I guess the point I am trying to make is that I value this handful of people more than most do their friends and the rest of the world just doesn't offer me what they do so I really don't feel its worth my time to invest into anyone else when I could further invest into these people. 

With that being said ladies and gentle man I give you Ty Brennermen
I have known Ty for some years now and really never hung heavily until the past two years or so. We always ran in the same social circle of friends but with conflicting schedules and my fore mentioned attitude about people we never really did anything to further our friendship. 
For those of who don't know Ty let me tell why he's the best dude ever. Ty is never a negative dude, I mean ever. I have hung out with him for days on end and have never seen him get upset. I mean granted he is like everyone else and gets frustrated or bummed, but never angry. I personally can have a short temper and get out of line really quickly. Ty is always listening to other people and is always slow to speak and chooses his words very carefully. I know that he thinks it makes him look "soo dumb" but really I feel that he is much smarter than I'll ever be for having such control. Its a trait I admire a lot. Even when he asks for advice he allows the other person to fully explain their rationale before responding.
Ty is also the most sincere dude I have ever met. He literally loves everything about life. If anyone needs anything at all if Ty has it; its yours. He also never really "talks shit" on people. He constantly looks for the best in people and if he doesn't agree with someones point of view he simply states that " I don't agree" never anything further unless prompted. To me that is the best. I feel personally that I let my mouth run a lot and I am kind of a shit head but Ty constantly puts life into perspective for me without even trying and for that I am super grateful. He is also the most accepting person I have ever met. He constantly challenges the people around him to look at all sides of an issue before choosing a side. 

Lastly Ty is the best because he is always down to hang and clown. He can take any serious situation and turn it into the funniest thing ever. He has the ability to create the most light hearted atmosphere even when I am the most bummed out I have ever been in my life.  I know most people in the mid-twenties to thirties just want to be serious and live the 9-5 life. Not to say there is anything wrong with that but that is where I feel Ty and I are the most similar. We could  I can't even count the endless nights we've spent just doing the dumbest stuff ever, but at the end of every night I feel like I have the best life in the world. 

Ty thank you always being the best dude ever. I know I'm not one for a bunch of sentimental words but you are someone I look up to constantly and wish I was more like. 

I know this was poorly written and the pictures suck, but if you don't like it you obviously aren't one of the people I intended to write this for.

MY FRIENDS OVER YOU

TONY B